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In addition to the usual cultural sensitivity that should be shown whenever visiting any country that is not your own –- modest dress, not being loud, always polite rather than demanding –- there are particular things that can be perceived as being impolite or even offensive in each culture. Here are a few of the “don’ts” when visiting Cambodia.

DON’T point your feet at anyone. Be careful when seated not to cross your legs in a way that has your feet at pointing at someone (better not to cross your legs!). This rule applies even when seated on a mat on the floor. Pointing at someone with your foot is considered an insult. Shoes should be removed when entering a home or a temple. (Don’t worry, no one will take them!)

DON’T pat anyone on the head, even children. The head is considered the most sacred part of the body and should not be touched. Don’t point at someone’s head; don’t count the people in a group by pointing at their heads.

DON’T kiss and cuddle in public. Overt displays of affection, even among married couples, are frowned on everywhere in the country. (This one was tough since we are used to holding hands when walking together!)

DON’T wear shorts or spaghetti straps in public. Upper arms and legs should be covered, at least to the knee.

DON’T walk in a monk’s shadow. This superstition is thought to lead to illness since walking on the shadow can release the demons of ill health.

DON’T lose your temper or talk loudly and aggressively. That will only aggravate a situation and make it worse. Smile. Don’t criticize. Allow others to “save face”.

DON’T use your left hand to give something to someone. The left hand is considered dirty. Use either the right hand or both hands together.

DON’T touch a Cambodian woman if you are a man, even in friendliness or joking.

DON’T cross your fingers (like a “good luck” sign in the US), this is an obscene gesture in Cambodia.

We have observed that not all Cambodians observe all of these rules very strictly, especially young people. But, it is up to them, not us, to decide where the limits can or cannot be relaxed, so we try to be aware of situations where these norms apply and respect them.